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joker and it’s not about how many times you’re knocked down. It’s about how many times you get back up. You know that was from George Custer very good quote. I think it’s been either knocked down or no matter. How many times you fall down.
Its All About How Many Times You
get back up and I wanted to talk a little bit today about my advice some of the things that I say here on my channel and what you guys should be doing with your lives first and foremost. My channel is one part advice one part entertainment and one part nonsense that’s really the best way. I can put it. It’s a place where we can kind of gather together talk about some issues that guys face. Maybe I can wax on poetically about it and maybe get a little bit of advice out of it.
But The Big Important Takeaway That I
think we don’t often talk about is that I’m just a guy. I’m just a guy that that decided to film some videos and put out my thoughts out there on into the ethos and if you guys decide to tune in and get something out of it. I think that’s important but the most important thing about kind of what we do is to see different ways of tackling life to deciding what’s right for you and what am I going to do and how do I move forward with my life and it’s been a little while since I just did a kind of a. straight talk without any other overlays or anything so I wanted to do that tonight. One of the big things that whether you’re one of you guys that says hey, you know what it’s important for me to have family How do I do it? It’s important for me to get married or it’s important for me to date or it’s important for me to make a million dollars.
Whatever It Is That That Is Important
to you um a lot of times. You’ll come here and I’ll see the questions in in the in the chats down below you guys will email me. Some of these questions and I have a real kind of a simple way to look at it and that you’re going to you’re going to have to figure it out for yourself. I’m going to give you advice about how to be happy and say single or casually dating and I’m also going to show you a bunch of really bad reasons why I think that’s the best way to go, but if you don’t think that’s right for you that’s fine the big thing is you have to go out and get or find what’s right for you and chase that dream nothing says that I’m right I mean I’ve never said I’m right. I’ve never said and listen you have to do this because if you don’t do this you’re going to be unhappy.
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I think this is what I think and this is what I think you should do with it. So you guys out there that are are having your struggles that are feeling like um you’re not happy in life my advice to you. is is same as it’s always been is to be happy as a person on your own be happy as just you and once you’re in a good place from there, you can take your life take it off in any direction that you want to go you decide but but here’s the important part of it. You have to decide what’s right for you and it’s not what I think is right for you it’s not what society thinks it’s right for you.
Its Not What Your Family Thinks
is right or college. Thinks is right it has to be you thinking what’s right and sometimes the only way to find that ability The only way to kind of dig deep and say, Where is it that I want to go and what is it that I want to do and how am I going to be happy that’s. Something that only you can figure out for yourself but you have to be a whole happy not successful as far as financial but successful as far as where am I in my in my place in life and here’s the great part. If you’re not there yet or you think you’ve been there multiple times. Sometimes you either have to start over or sometimes you just need to have to pick a direction and go when I hit a I don’t know a lot of people will call it a midlife crisis, but I call it a midlife awakening is when I hit a certain age and my relationships had ended and I didn’t have a new relationship and I got so fed up with work.
I And I Had Saved Very Well.
Obviously. You have to do that before you can just walk out on a job, but I I felt you know I’ve saved up pretty well. I don’t have a relationship. I sold my house.
I All I Really Have Is
my dog in my truck and some items. I donated almost everything I owned. I sold my truck, which was only about a year old. I took a little bit of a loss on it. I dropped my dog off at my family’s home.
I Threw Everything In My Backpack And I
started traveling around the world only because I didn’t know what I wanted to do for the rest of my life. I was at a crossroads and I didn’t know if I wanted to go back to work. I had a good network engineering job. I was making good money. I didn’t know if I wanted to sit.
In A Cubicle And And Make Good
money and just have kind of that life. I didn’t know what I wanted so I threw everything away basically to start over again and the interesting thing is after traveling. I learned a lot about the world, but I also learned more about myself and I found that after traveling this way. After only living out of a backpack. I realized all the things that I thought that I wanted in life that I needed in life that these things would make me happy.
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I Realized None Of It Made Me Happy.
The only thing that really made me happy is having time to do the things that I love, but after doing that and coming home. The interesting thing is how many people were not only kind of jealous of what I had done, but how many people also thought what. I had done was was stupid that I was I was kind of throwing my life away instead of putting my nose to the grindstone and doing the nine to five and bringing in good money and getting married having kids settling down house on the hill. So 50 of people were very jealous that I could do that most of those guys were married and stuck at home and then a lot of other people were thinking that I was crazy because I was just going nowhere in my life, but the part of that that’s the part of this that’s important to you is that you’re gonna have to do what you feel is right if I had listened to half the people.
Id Probably Be Trying To Get A Girlfriend.
Maybe I’d have a long-term girlfriend. Maybe I’d have a wife again. Maybe I’d be divorced again. Now maybe I’d have something else bad happen to me.
Maybe Id Have A Great Job And
if I’d listened to the other half well. They think I did the right thing and and they kind of follow me vicariously wishing they could do the same thing with their lives. But if I had done either one of those things. I wouldn’t have been happy. I had to do what was best for me and that meant not listening to anyone else.
S Advice So When We Talk Here And
and in my videos going forward. I can’t say everything I want to say in every video like remember when I say this. I mean this and remember when I’m talking about this. I mean this I can’t do that in any of every video because they’d be terribly long and terribly boring, but I will say is when you watch. videos whether it’s advice about being a single guy and being a bachelor? Whether it’s advice about how to maybe meet somebody or about overseas dating or about financial investment.
Youre Gonna Have To Youre Gonna
have to figure it out on your own and then no matter what anybody else says in your life No matter what anyone else thinks you’re gonna have to do things your way Because ultimately there’s two things when you fail and inevitably you will whether you fail it and you guys that haven’t had relationships yet as you grow and mature as long as you continue to improve yourself. You will be able to have a relationship in some fashion in most of the cases and and even if not in many cases now with the kind of the professionals that are out there today, you can at least get some temporary interactions. with women but no matter what you do no matter how hard you try at something you are going to fail. You know Thomas Edison was once quoted um I mean he I think he failed. I want to say he failed building a light bulb or inventing the light bulb a hundred times and when he was asked about it somebody said why did you what have you learned from you know failing a hundred times to make a light bulb He said well.
I Learned To Make A Light
bulb and I also learned 100 ways not to make a light bulb. The whole point of it is that from failure as long as you learn something as long as there’s a take away as long as you improve yourself. It wasn’t a failure you might chalk it up to being a mistake, but it wasn’t a failure. You know I was married the mayor we were together. I think about eight years something like that seven or eight years.
At The End Of It, You Could
say our marriage was a failure Looking back Should I have not gotten married definitely not but I was and afterwards I learned from this number one. How not to date or correction a better way to date Number two what not to give up of your own personal sovereignty to try to make a relationship work or what not to give up to try to make your partner happy, but in the meantime sacrificing too much of yourself. I’ve learned there’s just way too many things to and I’ve learned not to be married again to be quite frankly. So at the end of the day yes I did waste eight years of my life, but because of that it. set me in the direction I needed to go and how I’m gonna be happy so if you make a mistake and whether that’s you got in a relationship and you got your heart broken.
Ill Tell You Something Right Now If
you’ve never had that relationship and you’ve never had your heart broken. It’s tough to do now because relationships are a lot different, but again if you improve yourself and you do put yourself out there. I think most of you will be able to get relationships if you do hey you know best of luck to.
Summary
I wanted to talk a little bit today about my advice some of the things that I say here on my channel and what you guys should be doing with your lives first and foremost . My channel is one part advice one part entertainment and one part nonsense that’s really the best way to put it.& I think that’s important but the most important thing about kind of what we do is to see different ways of tackling life to decide what’s right for you and what am I going to do and how do I move forward with my life . I’m just a guy that that decided to film some videos and put out my thoughts out there on into the ethos and if you guys decide to tune in and get something out of it, you’ll come here and I’ll see the questions in in the chats down below you guys will email me. I have a real kind of a simple way to look at it and that you’re going to have to figure it out of the questions . Guys welcome to…. Click here to read more and watch the full video