Video Creator’s Channel Chris Williamson

One Of The Other Things That I Really

liked was how you talked about the innate desire for people to feel like they need to have someone to make themselves whole and I think that that is part of the jigsaw analogy itself right that you have particular quadrants of the jigsaw that you put together yeah could you explain those yeah well. So originally it was the idea was like you’ve got the obviously when the jig so you start on the outside you’ve got the four corners you know and this is obviously different for different people, but in the analogy I use it was like Fran’s, family job and hobbies like and those are transferable. They’re different from you and somewhere you know your family my family is very important to me so my friends and I’m first of all of my job don’t have any hobbies. There’s no that Corner‘s obviously small for me, but for other people you know. Maybe they blumin hear their family.

Maybe Their Family Is Blumin And Maybe Theyve

only like three close friends, but they’ve got lots of hobbies and that their job is an office or a consuming thing and it’s you know probably the jacks analogy is people just don’t change over the years. They’re always the same picture. What is you change those points when you just go blumin I want to be obsessed with my job anymore or you know and my fault. I want my family but to be beggar now and you have to sort of a move right so it’s constantly changing in their shifting thing that the one thing we all want and is we all feel broken if we don’t have someone there the reason. There the reason we feel broken is because of how we raise children you know the UK shows everything is about love.

Everything Is About Relationships You Know Our Parents.

Divorce is very very common. It’s a very very common thing. There’s nothing wrong with it but divorce that was talking about for some phones kids is very sort of taboo because can’t help kids that sometimes love is wrong. You can’t tell an eight-year-old that they’re gonna get it wrong so many blumin highness have so many times before they get it right because that’s not what you want the story of you know love to be.

When You Youre Seven Or Eight

years old. Right yeah you know it’s always the Disney Princess gets the Prince of the Prince gets the princess or it’s always about these relationship is the whole focus of ever every single. shows and I’ve done is even now when I’m pitching UK shows they go who’s the lovely like well. I doesn’t have to be a blumin love interest like why does my sure that has nothing to do with love? What is my calculator Why is that important? They your kids or Hargrove like it’s people just need to know a lot of people feel the desire to latch on to that particular store even right. It’s a story of hope and redemption for people who don’t have it and I guess a hope of continuation for those who do MmM yeah then again.

Ive Always Said That Ive Got Nothing Against

relationships and Jake’s always never meant to be a breakup show and it’s not. It’s a love letter to single people. I just took me so long to be secure with being single they took me. me to know you know especially family stuff when you get mine from having kids you like whenever I blumin want yeah and if I don’t have them tough blumin like get a grandchild from your other kids. I don’t care I’ve adorned all games and I was I was it my business partners wedding.

A Few Years Ago Him And His Missus

have been together since they were 20. They are the exact opposite the polar opposite of my situation just about to have their second child and they’ve got two dogs and it is like the white picket fence the British ones equivalent all right whose wedding and we’ve been there for the weekend. It’s been beautiful and everything’s amazing and the families got on and the service is fantastic and this not new. There is I’m driving away. I can see his mom.

• hobbies
• analogy
• jigsaw
• family
• selfish

His Mom And A Couple Of Her

family members just looking at me as I drove past and I could just see in their eyes. They were thinking you’re next and I’ve found the window down as I won’t be soon. There are there are different paths in love life for different people. Mm-hmm like in yeah ie so some of us are don’t get me wrong. I’m an absolute romantic like.

I Want To I Want To Be

a dad more than anything in the world. I really really would do and I want to get mind. I want to have kids. I want that I just don’t think I have to do it before I’m 30 and I don’t think I think I’m not looking for it at all like I’m thoroughly enjoying you know cuz I’m not being in a relationship and not being it that means. can be selfish as blumin at the moment and I can travel as much as I travel for my job.

I Can Really Focus On And One

day that will change one day. Some God Damn woman is going to come in my life and just be perfect and I’m going to you. Ah I didn’t realize that I was writing all of these routines and it was yeah. I’m the blumin Hypocrisy, Oh my yeah, see what I get into a blumin relationship. My fines are gonna be like you blumin what like I know I’m sorry she made me.

I Didnt Mean To Lay My Heart Look

at her with our blumin perfect little laugh that for some reason makes me feel warm and say all that yeah, I’m gonna be a hypocrite. I’m gonna be an absolute. I’m gonna be an absolute good but no but I also won’t be because I met I’m not against relationships. I’m against fake relationships and the more fake relationships that exist. You are It’s it’s it’s a disease like you see you’ll say they go.

Im So Happy.

I’m so happy in this relationship and you’re not but you’ll lie to your friends that are single and go. I’m so hungry with Jonathan or I’m so happy with Claire and they’ll go blumin it now they get through it. They hate each other. They get through it yeah that’s what we must must do and you say you just go bluminNK] This person I’ll change who I am you know everyone says it takes like why why does that have to take what like if you’ve got kids absolutely like if it’s but when you’re.

But When Youre Just Starting Out Like

well if I had to know if this might sound insane and that’s because I have if I if if I’m in a relationship and we have one argument in that first year Bye Yeah like Oh, we have disagreements like Yeah, I love he won’t sign up on Peter I don’t wanna fluffy yeah yeah we could do that but like if like let’s see I get fundamentally Yeah like you. I have a lot of female friends who are my best friends in the world is caught up in friends with Jean. For eight years we left together she’s one of my closest friends. If I was ever in a relationship with someone who’s like you need to see Jean Lance I would be like you can absolutely take a running fight to yourself like it’s you know that because that’s.

• family important friends
• different different people analogy
• job hobbies like transferable different
• friends ve got lots hobbies
• make think jigsaw analogy right

You Thats Thats Either Jealousy Which

I’ve Don’t suffer from so it’s maybe you know I have any I don’t have any blumin sympathy for it Yeah because it’s those are your insecurities and I had trust me. I will do everything through you found with someone. I don’t want them to feel insecure you know I think your job is to make that person you know feel loved and valuable and but you know even if you do that and they’re still blumin jailers you’re like I can’t ya know it’s not my job to fight the blumin idea yeah yeah it’s not your job to fix me and it’s not my job to fix you you.

Summary

One of the other things that I really liked was how you talked about the innate desire for people to feel like they need to have someone to make themselves whole . I think that that is part of the jigsaw analogy itself right that you have particular quadrants of the . jigsaw that you put together yeah could you explain those yeah well. I want my family but to be beggar now and you have to sort of a move right so it’s constantly changing in their shifting thing that the one thing we all want and is we all feel broken if we don’t have someone there the reason. The reason we feel broken is because of how we raise children you know the UK shows everything is about relationships you know our parents. Divorce is very very common. There’s nothing wrong with it but divorce that was talking about for some phones kids is very sort of taboo because can’t help kids that sometimes love is wrong. You can’t tell an eight-year-old that can’t ….. Click here to read more and watch the full video