Dating after the 20s lots more options for HIM lots less for HER

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This is Joker with a face for radio and a voice for print. I have a fun. You know I just did something on the 30 something’s trying to date and having a hard time dating and I found another really fun article that I thought I’d read tonight about more frustration with the 30 something’s leaving well the 20-somethings leaving their 30 behind 30s behind it wishing man I wish I had found something in my 20s so this from the Daily Mail says dating in your 30s is just waiting for the good ones to get divorced. Frustrated.

Singletons Reveal How Much Harder It It

is to find love when you leave your 20s behind so as people from around the world revealed the problems with dating in their 30s. Many said it seemed like all the good potential partners have already been. One person said likelihood of finding a good catch was like finding Neverland another admitted they were waiting for the good ones to get divorced so here’s here’s what I find so funny about this is it’s happened it’s happened with girls that I’ve dated it happened with friends. It happens with articles. It happens everywhere when women are in their 20s.

They Are In Their Prime As Far As

looks as far as athleticism as far as being able to pretty easily stay slim as far as just kind of having all of the opportunity they go to college they in and it used to be at least you know I talked to my when I was talking to my mom about this and I asked where her and my dad met many many many years ago. They met right after my mom was out of college and she. was a secretary at a in industrial. It was a corporation that made glass and other products and my father was working there and he just happened to come in and she was the secretary and they started chatting it up and he has drawn a date, but again he was like mid-30s and she was mid-20s. So I think once women hit 30 either again the abilities to find somebody settle in get dating then get married then have it starts getting pretty late if you don’t start until 3233 married by 35 36 start all of a sudden.

Youre 37 38 39 Before You

have your first little one and so 20s is really the best year to kind of settle in and get that permanent guy. The other mistake that a lot of women make is. They have kids in their 20s without a long-term partner. Gonna read down through this and get some of the the comments from some some people on what it’s like to date in their 30s. They say the course of true love never did run smooth, but for some Singleton‘s it seems dating is a trickier than ever people from around the world revealed their candid frustrations about dating in their 30s in an anonymous thread shared on whisper among the admissions is one person who said trying to find a good catch in your 30s is like finding Peter Pan and Neverland.

Why Did They Just Repeat This

twice No okay let’s see so dating in your 30s is rough you’re just waiting for the good ones to get divorced. So here’s here’s what’s interesting let’s say we follow the 8020 rule that we’ve heard a lot that the 100 percent of the women want to date the top. 20 percent of men which gives men many many options. They’re so choosy instead of saying you know what I will look at Maybe instead of the top 20% of men. I’ll look at the top 30% or the top 40% or even the top 50% instead of doing that they just say you know what I’m picky enough.

Ill Just Wait For That Top 20% To

maybe. I can meet one that’s divorced hopefully. He doesn’t have any kids in a family yet and I can snag him that makes no fool sense because again there’s still a hundred percent of the women waiting for those 20 percent of men, but when a good portion of them married you know you’re you’re throwing it all the way from nothing at that point but again that’s the mindset that these women are in they’ve been taught now for decade after decade that you know I deserve the best I’m special I’m unique I’m Wonderful I’m. This I’m that and and the young men are being told the same as well. You know the the and I don’t want to say all Millennials are taught this because it’s not the case but you know the the millennial generation is called the Snowflake generation because one’s unique and special it’s been called the snow plow generation because.

Their Parents Go Through Usually The

mother and make sure to remove all obstacles out of their way. So their path is easy and then the first time they encounter something difficult. They freak out and Don’t know how to handle it. And this is a case where they’re finding things Aren’t working out the way they want and instead of looking at a different way to maybe approach this situation. They just stomp their feet cross their arms and go fine.

Im Gonna Wait.

I’ll find I’ll wait till one of these guys. Maybe he got a bad wife and I’ll wait Til he decides to leave her and then I’ll pick him up interestingly though by the statistics at least even these good guys are having the women file divorce on them and then all of a sudden. Yeah they’re single again, but guess what he may be. writing checks for alimony and child support Doesn’t have quite as much money.

Maybe Hes Not A Top 20% Her

anymore, Maybe because he makes a little bit less money he’s not quite as desirable. It’s an uphill battle. I mean these the women that are looking for well. I want a guy that six-foot-tall instantly you’re like in the top 10 or 15% of men are above 6 foot tall that’s how quickly you eliminate everybody out there just by having that one statistic once you start adding in money and everything else you’re looking at the top 5 or 10 percent of men dating in your mid-30s is like going to the grocery store at midnight before they’ve restocked all that all the good stuff is gone and everything else is picked over and damaged. Maybe you might find something again.

This This Just Goes To Show

you. For you, it’s not there for you anymore, but you know the guys that are in their 30s right the gentlemen they’re in their 30s are still going out with the 20-somethings and a lot of men are learning I Don’t need to get married to go out with someone in their 20s because they’re in the party mode there and I’m having fun mode. They’re in the I want to find my inner self and and bed all these different guys and so the 30 something’s like I don’t need to settle down then as the guys get into their 40s now They’ve got 20-somethings. Like I said my last long-term relationship was with a 26-year-old student, a college student so then a 40-year-old that you know keeps himself in decent shape and it is doing okay for himself. He can go hang out with.

Like Him Because He Could Easily Pay

for dates and you know and he’s a little bit more mature and knows lots of activities and fun things to do and he doesn’t have to go into college or study for exams. He’s got his free time after he finishes work and that same guy can go out with V30 something’s that are looking for Mr. . right and he can say well you know what I’m still I’m still got it going on enough that even if I’m not the long term for these women. They’ll still hang out with me and have fun and so on and so forth.

So Really That Leaves The 40 Something Guides

now have 30s and 20s to work with 30-something guys have 30 and 20s to work with so now you’re up to 50-year-old guys and the 50-year-old guys guess. They’re still going out with the 40s and the 30s and the 20s and I know this because one of the relationships that I had the after we broke up. She ended up dating somebody that was even older than I was and who was in his 50s. So here’s a 50 something dating like a 27 or 28-year-old right so when when are the women gonna find the good men that are ready to settle down or maybe take a second swipe after they’ve been rammed through on a divorce. Not gonna happen because they think the guys are wising again wise to it.

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Lets See 30 Is Getting Laid Easy

finding love nearly impossible not looking for a hookup. One Washington-based woman said was easy to find someone to fool around with in your 30s deemed it nearly impossible to find true love because guys are. Wanting to settle down you’ve programmed them that you’ve programmed them seeing their their their maybe their father, their brother, their friends getting just mauled and divorce and they you’ve programmed them to say no I’m not interested in that I have nothing to gain early 30s dating pool shallower dirtier judgmental impact with unwanted baggage. However, bite mid-30s. It goes with the flow that sounds like a dude that’s writing that that sounds like a guy deleted my facebook dating profile.

Im Gonna Commit To Not Online Dating

in my 30s. The longer I swipe the more convinced that I’ll be alone forever and the more depressed I get not worth it yeah and that’s either a guy that’s not getting any matches online because again that the tender the tender and the UK and the other polls have shown that the women find eighty percent of the men. than average, which is statistically impossible. There was one one that I saw that they found no men.

Zero Men Were In The Top Ten Percent

and only likes something like 4.8% were in the top twenty percent, The rest, which is 95 percent of men were below the 80 percentile. It just doesn’t work I have to admit meeting men and my 30s is so friggin easy and fun confidence comes with age ladies I’m in the prime of my life. This is someone that’s out there just having a good time not trying to find a serious relationship and she’s still you know she’s still in the playground having a good time that may end if she wants something serious.

Though Once Youre 30-Plus The Tables Turn

in dating men will be looking for younger at women in their thirties rely let’s say once you’re in if you’re. Plus the tables turn in dating men will be looking for younger and women in their 30s realized they are losing their looks and will settle in many occasions, and I’ve said this many times you know you guys that are in your 20s that want to date just relax. I know I know everything’s Rage and you know you got the the old testosterone going through the veins just relax settle into work settle into a career get things going for you get your profession under your belt by the time you’re in your 30s you’ll be successful you won’t have waste at any time your 20s and dating which is.

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Summary

People from around the world revealed the problems with dating in their 30s . One person said likelihood of finding a good catch was like finding Neverland another admitted they were waiting for the good ones to get divorced . Singleton’s reveal how much harder it it is to find love when you leave your 20s behind so I think once women hit 30 either again the abilities to find somebody settle in get dating then get married then have it starts getti. It happens everywhere when women are in their 20s. They are in the prime as far as looks as far . as they are able to pretty easily stay slim and it used to be at least you know I talked to my when I was talking to my . mom about this and I asked where her and my dad met many many many years ago. They met right after my mom was out of college and they met right before my . father was a secretary at a corporation that made glass and other products and they started chatting it up and he was like…. Click here to read more and watch the full video