Guys have learned if we arent appreciated we arent going to step up

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Guys Welcome To Better Bachelor! This Is Joker With

a face for radio and a voice for print No bald head today no Beanie today. It is Buffalo Bills Hat day because they made the playoffs and they haven’t been very good since Jim Kelly in the very early 90s, so hey I’m gonna give my team a little bit of love today. Also I do need something for my head because it’s still a little chilly out just not beanie chili or toboggan chili as you guys call it so today. We’re gonna talk about chivalry. It is dead and it is a good thing in the past, and I’ll put this right out here because I think .

I Think Its Its The Reason Why

I think it’s good is because in the past men did chivalrous things to show maybe not necessarily interest in a woman that he wanted to date her, but that he founded her. He found founded he found her attractive. He wanted to show a little interest a little flirtatious maybe a little how do you do and women Don’t deserve that today at least a lot of women now. Some some women maybe still but a lot of women really don’t deserve that much any any anymore and and there’s a couple of good examples here that I’m going to talk about so let me jump right into recording. This is kind.

Of A Weird Story, Its From Vogue

which in and of itself but this is written by Elizabeth von Thurn, owned taxi taxis. So apparently she is a princess and she uses herself in the title is Chivalry dead Princess Elizabeth Tnt searches for a true gentleman so that’d be like me writing an article says that says I don’t know is is dating dead Joker looks for good women written by joker. I don’t know to me it just sounds kind of kind of weird anyway. This is she goes on to say um there are a few there are few true gentlemen. An uncle of mine is one such man.

He Kisses The Hand Of Every

married woman Milady no don’t ever do that he stands up. Whenever a woman enters the room, he carries bags utilitarian opens doors, utilitarian and of course takes care of the check. Utilitarian it’s not who he is that makes him a gentleman It’s the services he provides for nothing in return, but let’s face it. Most of us myself included have to be reminded to behave our best and sometimes the perfect such reminder is the door flung in your face one sunday morning not long ago. I was getting the paper at a deli when a girl stormed past me as I stood there holding the door, so she was nice enough to hold the door for another young lady and the woman goes blazing past her.

She Did Not Acknowledge My Presence

not the faintest nod smile mumbling of thank you She just pushed past me. I stood there startled and thought if that’s our reaction. It’s no wonder men no longer bother with basic chivalry correct you know now do I still hold the door open for my. Mom and my dad because my dad’s like 86 years old sure of course, I do why because I can and and I care for them and it’s nice do. I still hope open the door or hold the door open for strangers or hold an elevator for somebody that’s trying to get on it Yes why because it’s it’s common courtesy, but do I go out of my way and and that’s kind of what chivalry is going out of your way to do something nice for a woman and that’s what guys have said no not really I’ve talked about the story where a gentleman who he stopped to help a young lady and I forget where this happened.

But He Stopped To Help A

young lady and for two and a half hours he worked on doing something to her car and the story’s old enough. I don’t remember what he was doing, but he was helping her and she thanked him and gave him a hug. And then later on she said that he he came on to her and that he was soliciting her and giving a hard time and pestering her and he ended up going to jail for it and he lost his wife. He lost his job. He had tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees just to prove he and and finally they found video of where he got caught on like a gas station camera or something where he just they just showed him helping the woman out on her car quick hug that she initiated and then he went on his way but without that video that guy might be in jail just for helping a woman now when you start doing stuff like this guys are.

Like Its Not That Im Just Not

gonna do something nice for a woman. I’m not gonna go out of my way for it Now if I’m walking up to a walmart today and there’s a you know a couple a dude, a woman, a a stroller anything do I hold the door open sometimes yeah. I mean if they’re right behind me sure why not I think that’s one of the things that we’re losing today is common courtesy to our fellow man and doing so doesn’t make you a simp it doesn’t make you a loser it doesn’t make you try hard it just means hey you know it’s the same as returning a cart or a buggy if you’re from the south, um returning a car. A shopping cart back to the the storage area for them instead of just leaving it sitting next to your car. It’s just common courtesy, and I think the more of these little things that go away The more our society kind of falls apart, but men are no longer going to go out of their way to do these nice things for women because they’re not appreciated for it and again women.

If You Do Appreciate This You Better Tell

the one women that don’t appreciate it to shut up because guys hear it and they’re like okay we’re out she continues on these days. It seems that no no notions of chivalry, politeness and manners often get thrown into the basket of stuffy old traditions stumbling upon a fabulous book from the 1940s Vogues Book of Etiquette made me think about this even more more than 600 pages of ideal behavior and to my great amazement. Many of the rules still make perfect sense today call me fashioned but I hold good behavior and high esteem think about it. You’re rushing up to the escalator mobile phone in one hand handbag dangling on your arm and prada shopping bag and another Christmas gifts only of course your coattails are flying perhaps there’s a pair of gloved gloves stuffed into one pocket and your heels are not making logistics any easier, but there just ahead as a patiently weighty man or woman holding the heavy door for you. Nothing makes me believe in humanity quite like a kind gesture and and I’m fine with that I’m fine with kind gestures.

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But Again When Women There Are

a lot of women that won’t thank you for it that don’t appreciate you for it and guys have had enough of that and that’s kind of where they’re saying you. know in the past, I was at least at least a thank you you know and it doesn’t take much to hold a door open for somebody that’s why I still do it sometimes, but it doesn’t also take much for somebody to say hey thanks, but they don’t even do that so now forget it and if it happens enough and I I have to admit. I have been guilty of this before too where I’ll open a door. I’ll walk through and I’ll just leave it and I know the person behind me was I could have held it for them and I it just depends on my mood now. I guess sometimes.

I Can Be A Jerk But

again when you’re not appreciate when you’re not thanked for the common courtesy things. This is where society starts breaking down a little bit and guys start tapping out. And now you know women start tapping out. I’ve got another article to read after this where women complain about it. She says last summer.

I I Landed In Rome, Where The Well

her well rehearsed ease lifted my little LV carry-on out of the overhead compartment. I guess that’s a louis Vuitton so la di da but anyway she takes her her. I’m not gonna read through the whole thing because it’s long, but she takes her bag down and a gentleman offers to to pull it along or carry it for her hey that’s great but what does the guy bet get back in return nothing what did men used to get back in return you used to get a kind a look maybe maybe a kind word but also women liked it because it was a slight nod to the woman getting positive attention. In other words. Know hey guys Don’t do this for ugly women.

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Guys Do Nice Things For Good Looking Women

and so if guy does something nice for you. It was a good way for her to say. Oh it makes me feel attractive and important and again all about her feels well. Guys have had no more of that and I’ll leave this link below.

Im Not Going To Go Through The

whole thing but this article I like Suzanne Wenker. She writes a lot about men’s issues and men’s rights. She’s a good men’s rights activist and I like Susan Wenker, and she writes Chivalry is dead because women killed it and she’s got a couple good points in here, but she still speaks as if we need chivalry around and I disagree. I’m glad that it’s over um and again that doesn’t mean you need to be a jerk to.

Everybody But It Means Going Out Of Your

way to help a woman that’s over with or a strange woman now if it’s your girlfriend, your mom or something like that I get it, but anyway. She says a friend of mine whose mother died recently was going through her parents memorabilia and unearthed a Western Union Telegram from 1954 that her father sent her mother just before they married here’s what it said darling I shall be waiting for you eight with a lifetime of expectancy. My heart will be coming with you down the aisle may god be with us tonight and we pray we will always be with him thank you for becoming my wife my love forever yours Henry now that’s a beautiful letter or just a beautiful telegram, saying you’re waiting coming now now today you know too often we get the feeling of yeah. But is some other guy? You know is she shagging some other guy while he writes all this lovely words because he’s a nice guy and the bad boy that doesn’t pay a girl any mind well.

You Know Hes Shes Off With Him See

and that’s the problem again is when someone says they their promise to you, but they’re not really promised to you forever again. This is the breakdown. How much do you want to put yourself out there to pay attention to women and put yourself out there for women.

Summary

This is joker with a face for radio and a voice for print . No bald head today no Beanie today . Buffalo Bills Hat day because they made the playoffs and they haven’t been very good since Jim Kelly in the very early 90s . Chivalry is dead and it is a good thing in the past, and I’ll put this right out here because I think it’s it’s the reason why I think it’s good is because men did chivalrous things to show maybe not necessarily interest in a woman that he wanted to date her, but that he founded her.& He wanted to show a little interest a little flirtatious maybe a little how do you do and women Don’t deserve that today at least a lot of women now. Some some women maybe still but some of the women don’t deserve it anymore . Joker looks for good women written by joker. Joker says it just sounds kind of kind of weird anyway. He doesn’t know to me…. Click here to read more and watch the full video