He goes for an easy hookup she thinks hes what she deserves and never the two shall date

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Guys Welcome To Better Bachelor This Is Joker With

a face for radio and a voice for print. First my order your audio is gonna be a little off my old microphone broke. I put in the new one, but my amplifier for it is not in yet so I have to boost the heck out of this digitally so if it sounds a little bit off understand that’s only for another day or two then I’ll be back to normal today. I wanted to talk a little bit about why a lot of guys that might have been or let me put it This way a lot of guys that are red pill guys or guys that have kind of understand that the dating world is different than the way they they first believed which is if you grow up, you make a good salary you’re a nice guy. You’re a stable provider.

You Should Be Able To Get Married

and have a family and be happily ever after well. If you don’t believe that anymore and you’ve kind of taken what we like to term the red pill you’ve woken up to that’s not the way that’s not how things actually work but a lot of guys still say hey I want a date. I want to go out there and meet a girl and have an opportunity to still date and maybe have a long-term relationship. I’m gonna I’m gonna be doing another video on maybe some places you can go to get some dating advice with some other Youtubers and some other guys in the manosphere that’s not the point of this video today. I’m gonna talk a little bit about why I don’t think that actually works very well in how things have gotten so.

Around Im Gonna Bring Up An Image

that I want you guys to look at. This is a an image from a dating profile and this is a young lady. She’s 22 from what I can tell of this photo. It’s something that someone else posted so I don’t have any other photos, but if you look at her her arms are a little bit bigger and not very well defined, so I don’t think she works out very much and she may be a little bit heavier than average, but the point is she says I may not be the prettiest or the funniest, but I’ll gag on your trouser snake with full intent of killing of ending myself so what more do you want. So basically she’s putting it out.

There Is Look Just Show Up.

I’m not pretty. I’m not funny, but I will do it if. We match up I’m in I’m in will fool around will do whatever now I’m gonna give let’s just for sake of argument. Let’s give this girl up five average or for whatever you want but what happens that when you’re a guy that’s in the dating world and let’s say you’re a seven or an eight and you know that if you try to hook up with a seven or eight girl.

Its Texting Its Playing Games Its

being interesting. It’s coming across as flirty but not too forward and you got to make sure that you show her that you have a high value and you’re the blablablabla. It’s a lot of work but a guy that’s just laying on his bed. It’s looking for a little bit of easy action would look at her and go yeah she looks like she’s got a big big Bob’s. She that’ll be easy Yeah I’ll swipe on it see what happens Hey It’s a match and this guy that maybe 3/4 of rungs higher on the ladder than this Gal can say Hey you want to hook up and she looks at him and she goes wow He’s hot.

Hes Good-Looking Seems To Have A Pretty

good job. Yeah I’m in he roll out he rolls over to hers. She rolls over to his they do the deed and he bounces it’s better than his hand. It was easy easy pickings well that guy may not have very high standards, but in the same token he’s not looking for a girlfriend. He’s looking for a little bit of fun and she just she puts it out there just as easy it’s a lay down for him well he would put no effort into this versus having to play game.

Work Really Hard For Another Girl

for weeks or maybe maybe he’s doing both Maybe he’s not contacted this good-looking girl and maybe he’s just a little bit better than average, but he’s got a good job. He’s got some finances he’s got some game. He’s taken some courses on on good ways to keep a girl’s interest and talk to her so while he’s playing game with that girl he just gets a lay down like this now what if you’re on her level A five or a six and you try to hook up with her even though you’ve got some game and such she’s gonna say well. This guy is funny and interesting. This guy’s really hot ah.

Maybe She Does Both But Do You Think

you’re actually gonna be able to date her no because she looks at you and says well your average but this. Guy showed interest in me This other guy wanted to sleep with me. This other guy said he found me sexy so I’m gonna I can be with him, but I’m not gonna settle for a guy that’s down here. I’m not gonna date this guy. I want to date that guy yeah we only fooled around a little bit and then he bounced on me but I get that kind of attention from those guys all the time and I I’ll I’ll jump in bed with those kind of guys all the time all I have to do is convince one of them to date me and I’m homemade.

I Got I Got A Great Guy

attractive guy successful guy and he’s all mine. So what happens that’s she keeps shooting for that. In the meantime. She just gets you know pumped and dumped and it never happens for. her but what if you’re the average guy that says Okay I’m a five she’s a five.

You Know This Is The Type

why doesn’t she find me attractive why can’t we make this work it’s because she’s gotten attention from these other guys now those other guys in the meantime like I said maybe maybe rolling the dice with a seven or an eight or a nine working on getting some action over there but he’s spinning a plate keeping this one on the hook just because he can hit her up in the middle of a Thursday when he’s bored and wants to get some and say hey I want to come over you you up you down you good for this and she’ll be like yeah heck yeah because he’s several steps higher on the rung. I want to read a study and it’s it’s from it’s. It’s consits from a NEw Republic, but this is a study that they say is taught in psychology and one read through this so you guys can kind of understand the concept that we’re talking about here says psychology and human behavior. Students are taught early on about the famous 1978 study conducted on the Florida State University campus, in which volunteer male and female subjects approached other students of the opposite gender and recited a carefully scripted proposition. I’ve been noticing you around campus and I find you to be very attractive would you like to go to bed with me tonight now listen to these numbers right.

The Subjects Were Neither Particularly Unattractive Nor

extremely attractive just average. We’ll call that a five-like like I said, which is to say they were pretty much the kind of partners. Most people do wind up going to bed with. The women’s success rate when they made this pitch was a remarkable 75 percent three-quarters. Three out of four men sure because they had to put in zero effort.

They Finally Found Her To Be Average

or slightly better than average. They had to put zero effort in and they got lucky out of it. They got some action 75% let’s see though no subsequent rolls in the hay actually took place at least not under the aegis of the study, so maybe it did happen anyway the male volunteers succeeded with this approach precisely zero percent of the time the male volunteers success says remarkably the psychologist repeated the study three more times throughout the 1980s even when the UK epidemic made casual intimacy seem like moral mortal folly, and about 50 percent of the men were still completely receptive to an anonymous hookup so now when you look. look back at this average person here again. I’m gonna call her average.

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You Can Think Shes Less Than Average

that’s not my point, but you take a look at something like this and basically what she’s saying is hey If we match I’m saying I find you attractive and I’ll do these nice naughty things with you. A guy may look at her and go all right. I mean it’s a lay down swipe now what kind of chance does that give a guy that’s not as good-looking when she gets attention from these other guys, even if you’re in and you know when you look at some of these other coaches just say hey if you learn about body position and you learn about talking game and you learn about coming out there and ways to keep her interested and ways to be funny and ways to be. ways to be that maybe that at some point maybe that will get you that girl, but you’re having to put forth a Herculean amount of effort to get somebody that’s equal to you. Where is the guy that’s maybe a little bit better looking a little tall or maybe he’s got natural game whatever maybe he’s also taking some courses that teach him how to play game.

Hes Gonna Have An Easy Time

with this one so then men are left with a choice either a it’s. It’s almost an insurmountable mountain to get attention to try to keep their attention because even if you are got great game and you’ve got your life together. If she’s getting if she puts herself out there she’s bored and she’s got good-looking guys that are just thinking. She’s lay down and they say sure I’ll swipe on that she’s gonna look. you and say you know you’re you’re good, but I see better and they’re interested in me what she doesn’t understand.

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The Difference Is That You Would

take care of me as a boyfriend. He’ll only take care of me for the night, but I’m pretty sure with work. I can get one of these guys to wife me up or to date me long-term they continue on here in the room in the real world. This pattern holds even when the women is manifestly bad news narcissistically or otherwise someone with volatile moods or a turbulent romantic or personal history.

Its Not For Nothing That These

terms the term hot mess has gained such a linguistic currency capturing as it does the Lindsay, Lohan’s, Amanda Bynes and at one time the Kate Moss’s of the world beautiful captivating woman who also at least for a while believed behave in. that lead to their own undoing men can often spot this and none nevertheless respond with overtures. All the same women may react to Chris Mattock, Bad-boy men in much the way men react to bad girl women even if they’re not nearly the.

Summary

Joker talks about why a lot of guys that might have been or let me put it this way are red pill guys or guys that have kind of understand that the dating world is different than the way they they first believed which is if you grow up, you make a good salary you’re a nice guy.& You’re a stable provider.& If you don’t believe that anymore and you’ve kind of taken what we like to term the red pill you’ve woken up to that’s not the way that’s how things actually work. A lot of men still say hey I want a date.& I want to go out there and meet a girl and have an opportunity to still date and maybe have a long-term relationship. I’m gonna be doing another video on maybe some places you can go to get some dating advice with some other Youtubers and some other guys in the manosphere that’re not the point of this video today. I’ll gag on your t ….. Click here to read more and watch the full video