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I Had A Conversation About This The Other

day talking about the difference between beauty and hotness. Now you might have different terms for it in the literature but an immediate very sexually available signal of fitness versus a more timeless graceful, more subtle signal of fitness and I am absolutely adamant that society is signaling almost exclusively of hotness at the moment that the inherent transactional transient nature of most of young people’s relationships where basically they’re masturbating with somebody else’s body and they just that there happens to be another consciousness in the room that that is leading into hotness being used as the fundamental cue so look at I don’t even know if these magazines exist anymore, but you know if you were to get a girl on the front of some lad mag. Some boys mag that’s got fast cars and like scantly clad women that they’re not selecting for beauty. They’re purposefully selecting for hotness. I did two reality Tv dating shows.

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Me out and on that the same they’re not selecting for women that are beautiful that’s not to say that some of them aren’t or weren’t beautiful but the primary value that they’re selecting for is hotness because they only have six weeks if you only get six weeks in a villa and you have to share a bed that’s half the number of beds that there are people so you’re sharing a bed with somebody every night and they need you to switch switch. He does a two eliminations a week and all this stuff um they need it need hotness. You can’t you can’t have something that takes you three. months to fully appreciate all of the nuances of louise’s blumin back arch it’s like no no no no the the half-sleeve tattoo and the lip piercing will do it for you straight away Yeah exactly and there’s an there can be enormous pressure to kind of signal hotness. So I think tattoos and piercings and certain kinds of you know dressing in a certain way that basically advertises like I’m you know potentially open to short-term mating, What do you think it is what do you think it is about piercings and tattoos? What do you think’s the subtext behind that I think it’s a little bit.

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it it has become associated with openness to kind of short-term mating or you know openness to being open or polyamorous or whatever openness to threesomes whatever whatever you’re into um but. You get the signal established once there’s kind of a social consensus that Oh, if you have a lot of tattoos that’s signaling a degree of sexual openness that would not be welcome in Salt Lake City among the mormons you know but would be welcomed in like Brooklyn or La or whatever But I think your point about hotness versus beauty is is really on on the money and like some women are so beautiful like whatever cate, blind chad or Anne Hathaway or certain actresses like that where it’s it’s like almost hard to sexually objectify them like it feels almost wrong to sort of put them in the category of like Oh She’s so hot because classy beauty You immediately think oh I wish I had a wife like that right or I wish I had a girlfriend like that um I suspect there’s something parallel with. men where like certain men radiate kind of like short-term hotness rather than like good long-term husband potential You probably encountered this in the modeling world a little bit correct and in the nightlife world a lot dude. I mean because I see it’s so funny you know when you go into a nightclub and there’s a strobe light on and you don’t actually when there’s a strobe light you don’t see people move you see snapshots of the person it’s They’re here then they’re here then they’re here then they’re here um and running a club night is exactly the same as that but socially so I only get to see people for five hours on a thursday and a friday or whenever. It is that your particular portfolio of events is running for that season or that year or whatever and you see things happen so you’ll see.

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then maybe this guy and this girl. Maybe they meet each other and then maybe they hook up and then maybe they start talking and then maybe they’re together for a bit and then maybe this new girl comes in and but you don’t see everything happen you just see kind of like this brief window into it and dude it’s so blumin interesting to see to be able to select the kids that are going to be the ones that are going to have the status that are highly regarded and you’re right I mean there’s something there’s something around girls that wear those choker necklaces that have been accused of being a black belt for blumin by not me um and you see that certain signals play out and that’s what creates the stereotypes culturally you know you. know you see something it gets reinforced and then maybe people see that and think well. I’ve just got out of a relationship with a boyfriend why Don’t I get a nose ring and start wearing choking necklaces because that’s what the culture is telling me that sort of person does and it it just starts to feed itself yeah and I think I would just caution young people like what you want is you want maximum flexibility to adjust your signals that you’re sending out in a way that is like dynamic and adaptive. If you get a permanent tattoo that’s visible in every job interview or at at your wedding or whatever like it’s hard to go back from that it’s hard to do tattoo removal, whereas if you’re wearing you know black belt choker at least you can take that off and like then become respectable on.

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the wedding Yeah So um like the of course the more permanent the signal the more credible a signal. It is because it shows extra commitment. But I think a lot of young people really like. They have a very short term time horizon and they’re really not thinking ahead about how is this tattoo really going to look in 15 years is my future Toddler going to make fun of it what’s happening people if you enjoyed that then press here for the full unedited episode and Don’t forget to subscribe peace.

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Summary

I am adamant that society is signaling almost exclusively of hotness at the moment . I had a conversation about this the other day talking about the difference between beauty and hotness . I think tattoos and piercings and certain kinds of you know dressing in a certain way advertises like  tattooing and lip piercing will do it for you straight away . I did two reality Tv dating shows.& I did Love Island and one called take Me out and on that the same they’re not selecting for women that are beautiful that’s not to say that some of them aren’t or weren’t beautiful . The primary value that they’re selecting for is hotness because they only have six weeks if you only get six weeks in a villa and you have to share a bed that’s half the number of beds that there are people so you’re sharing a bed with somebody every night and they need you to switch switch.& He does a two eliminations a week and all this stuff…. Click here to read more and watch the full video