Video Creator’s Channel Russell Brand

They Say That All Poets Must Have An Unrequited

love and when I say they I mean Terence Trent Darby because that’s a lyric from a Terence Trent Derby song which I remember mulling over amusing over when I lived in the land of perennial heartbreak and adolescence that I revisited as an adult. I’ve always had that tendency to fixate in my case on a member of the opposite sex if indeed, words like opposite sex or applicable now because there are many many ways of interpreting those ideas, so for me females when I was a adolescent females. When I was in my 20s 30s Oh continual obsession fixation for me. It was not whilst I’ve had problems with lust and objectification in the past. I’ve also had a kind of problem with a rather romantic and I would say emotionally immature tendency to deify people that I fall in love with now.

Im Sure That This Is A

ubiquitous and universal tendency that simply bears the inflection of one’s personal preferences to which we make other people sacred in the absence of a true relationship with the sacred. When I think of the emotions. I felt I want you. I need you. I’ve you complete me leaving think of the more colloquial terms that we use around romantic love.

My Other Half Is Theres A Sort Of

discarded and initially satirical platonic idea that we are one being cast asunder. This is a sort of reference to. I think it’s Plato’s Republic, which one of the people makes a joke about that’s why we’re always yearning it’s like some people were bonded to someone of the same gender, some of a different gender, and then we spend our lives trying to recreate this wholeness whilst this may have been meant as a kind of sort of joke. I suppose in platonic terms at least. I feel that what is um pertinent about it is this sense of incompleteness that we will not be okay if we do not have the other person if someone has broken your heart.

If Theres A Person That You

use as it were as the mandela The fetish the object of your heartbreak if only I could have that person because I’m older now and it’s happened so many times to me that the face of that individual has changed, but the quality of the emotion remained the same a sense of inferiority, a sense of failing a sense of deep deep yearning and longing a very powerful and authentic sense that I have to have this person when I was even younger. It was people that I’d perhaps not even been in relationships with going right the way back to being you know seven eight years old and. having crushes and obsessions and fixations, but now now I’m married contentedly happily occasionally blissfully married. I have a different perspective on relationships where I don’t look at my partner as a kind of um counterpoint to my own emotions, but an indiv autonomous individual who’s living on parallel lines to me sharing a domestic space and in the duties of in our case raising children together keeping a home running and checking in that we have a shared vision in the past when I had relationships that fouled and that led to yearning and heartbreak. I was looking for a sense of redemption and I mean redemption in the kind of religious sense that I wanted to be it belonged to something else.

I Wanted To Be Redeemed.

I wanted to be owned by a higher thing because a romantic love is such an or an authentic endorphin flood. That you lose the tiny self amidst the hormonal tundra? The tininess of your constructed persona blasted aside like an autumnal detritus in the powerful wind of this deep deep emotion. From where is it resourced. We may allocate those feelings to this person.

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Im In Love With This Man.

I’m in love with this woman. I’m in love with this person but what is it really what is this yearning really what is it to indeed want my feeling is it’s something that must be resolved within us that we have to look inside ourselves and say even though I believe that I should be with that person that cannot be the case because I am not with that person. We have to let go not only of the person but of our self–centered belief that we know what is right in a sense when we are caught in. Miasma of heartbreak We are like pitiful gods that say I know how reality should be and reality hasn’t gone that way and it is my job to bend reality to my inner vision When instead what is required as the feelings themselves suggest because let’s face it they’re pretty powerful feelings.

They Bring You Low H The

depression the despair the loss. These feelings are all guiding us towards humility humility as I understand it and more importantly as the dictionary defines it awareness of our relative insignificance of our relative insignificance not of our worthlessness because we are valuable as each individual is invalid is valuable. We are valuable as all things that we share the planet and indeed the cosmos with have a value but for us to become immersed in this sort of egoic willfulness. I must have this that shouldn’t have happened. This is a.

Journey To Pain And Self-Damage, So What

I reckon you have to do You have to say even though I know I feel really bad now. I will feel better again otherwise you know what you’ll do and what I have done is that I’ve just transferred their feelings of heartbreak onto another person. I remember one time when I was having this. It wasn’t that long ago really when my heart was sort of broken by the end of a relationship. I toughened up a bit because I’ve been around the block a few times.

So I Sort Of Knew How

to sort of shut off. But inside I was in a sort of a great deal of pain and I would have stayed with that person If I felt like I could have made it work I remember not long after. I was in some rebound situation and I remember thinking the exact force that I felt about the other person and I thought Oh my God It’s me. It’s all in me. How can this person who couldn’t have been more different from the person.

Id Previously Been In Love With

be eliciting the exact same problem They can’t be objectively similar. It must be that I am projecting this on them and then on a deeper psychological level of course. The same way that there’s a limitation to the electromagnetic range of visual phenomena. Surely the same is true of emotional and psychic phenomena. I.

E We Only Know The Part Of

the person that we are able to know we only witness the part of a person we’re able to receive now. I believe truly truly I do in a kind of a central connection, a oneness that can be. achieved through love with your children with your friends with a partner with whoever? But often it’s. We construct a kind of hologram inside our heads of the other person and then worship this false idol expect it somehow to fulfill us so you’ve got to let go of that you’ve got to let that evaporate all pain is an invitation to burn ego. All pain is an invitation to let go of something and man.

I Must Have A Lot Of Ego To

let go off because I experience a lot of pain not only through heartbreak but through addiction through yearning through belief in my own status. All these things all lead to pain all lead to loss so if you are not loved by a person, you think should love you if you’re experiencing unrequited love if you have had your heart broken and you do not. know how to move on? You have to recognize that none of the things you are seeking are in the other person No matter how much you believe that it’s kind of like you have to recognize your inner matrix like God. I know I think that this is the problem and that that is the solution but for now just for today, I’m willing to admit that I don’t know what’s right for me and that this pain is information and this pain is trying to guide me get yourself ready to receive the true information because the true information the truth itself is not what you believe it’s going to be, But there is a great discovery to be made beneath that pain and do not impede this revelation by continuing to return to your old illusion you.

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Summary

When I was in my 20s 30s I had a continual obsession fixation for me . I’ve always had a tendency to fixate in my case on a member of the opposite sex if indeed, words like opposite sex or applicable now because there are many many ways of interpreting those ideas . I’m sure that this is a ubiquitous and universal tendency that simply bears the inflection of one’s personal preferences to which we make other people sacred in the absence of a true relationship with the sacred . We will not be okay if we do not have the other person if someone has broken your heart. We spend our lives trying to recreate this wholeness whilst this may have been meant as a kind of sort of joke.& My other half is there’s a sort of discarded and initially satirical platonic idea that we are one being cast asunder.& I think it’s Plato’s Republic, which one of the people makes a joke about that’s a joke, but we’re always…. Click here to read more and watch the full video