Video Creator’s Channel Chris Williamson

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• erotica
• femininity
• fantasies
• submissive

Why Is It That Publicly Were Getting Pushed

a much more submissive, much more agreeable, much more effeminate man and yet it seems in erotica like reveal preferences stated preferences. Why do they seem to be diverging yeah? I mean I think that in a sense you kind of captured it with the pushing aspect of it right like that there’s okay there is a there is a you know there can be a social agenda In not maybe wanting men or at least not wanting some men to be more aggressive and we often see sort of like at least recently sort of like negative view of masculinity in general right like this idea that well masculinity is toxic or that you know men need to be different , which also doesn’t really Jive well with the view that some people have that men and women are not. different it’s like well if they’re not different, then why are you worried about this Aren’t you worried about toxic femininity I mean it is an interesting question, but I think that that you know as you point out if if the point of that kind of erotica is to fulfill the fantasies of women. The fantasies of women are not about generally men that they can push around they’re about men that are useful if the world comes to an end. it’s it’s the things that that historically and ancestrally women valued in men is he going to be a good provider is he a good protector is he gonna you know take care of my kids Is he gonna give my kids good genes that are going to make them strong what would you what would you say so the ideal of the cover what would? You say to the women that are saying to you well Catherine you know those are that’s a old Antiquated view of what women want from men have we not transcended that now in the new world, you know I don’t I I’m perfectly happy if my boyfriend decides to paint his nails and web holes and and put a dress on.

This Is This Is Something Now Where

I I don’t think that you’re up with the times here sure I mean I would say that you know whatever floats your boat right like I mean if it works for you for your partner to be like that’s also perfectly fine. There may be variation between women and that but years ago they really tried to push the softer Gentler Kinder view of guys in romance novels and they didn’t sell well and my guess is they didn’t sell. well because even if in your daily life, it might be easier to have a guy that would do whatever you wanted no matter what that might not be what you fantasize about right? I mean if we think about what what what is really appealing to us in the same sense that of course, you know men may fantasize about women that they would never get in real life right if you think about the reality of things. If you’re an unattractive male who is older and doesn’t have any resources. You Know you’re not going to get the average porn star, but that doesn’t mean that that’s not what floats your boat, so it is it is almost a kind of not so much not short-term mating strategy thing, but it is an object of sexual desire that may not match up with what you would want as a long-term partner.

There May Be Some Differences There That

women have well mate might be what what you might want, but also might not be what you can get right as well. I think that that’s part of it because I think that every girl who goes to a romance novel convention would be happy to have one of the cover models go on with her and stay there um but you know there are also you know there are pros and cons to highly masculine men right. I mean and there’s. This debate about you know when you look at at even the hero in the romance novel I mean he’s very manly guy , But there is that that issue is he a cat or is he a dad and even when he starts out as a cat. He usually ends up as a dad bad that’s not always the way it is in real life.

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If If You Find That Guy Right So

there’s always going to be that compromise of what are the features that you would ideally like in your day.-to-day life and some of it may be that some of it also maybe just what’s happening in the population right There’s always been this discussion about whether testosterone levels have decreased and that men actually are somewhat less masculine than they used to be in some ways, and some of it may be just like. This is what we have and this is what we’re going to work with what’s happening people if you enjoyed that then press here for the full unedited episode and don’t forget to subscribe face.

Summary

Why is it that publicly we’re getting pushed a much more submissive, much more agreeable and much more effeminate man and yet it seems in erotica like reveal preferences stated preferences . Catherine asks: Why do they seem to be diverging? I think that in a sense you kind of captured it with the pushing aspect of it right like that there’s okay there is a there is there there can be a social agenda In not maybe wanting men or at least not wanting some men to be more aggressive and we often see sort of like at least recently sort of negative view of masculinity in general right like this idea that well masculinity is toxic or that you know men need to be different . Catherine says those are that’s a old Antiquated view of what women want from men have we not transcended that now in the new world, you know I’m perfectly happy if my boyfriend decides to paint his nails and web holes and and and put a dress on. You know I don’t…. Click here to read more and watch the full video